Day 1 – Recognizing Your Uniqueness

“You were born an original—don’t die a copy.” — John Maso

Most of the time, if not all, we have idle minds that look for the reason why we were placed on this earth.  We need direction and a sense of purpose to feel solid, and we have a reason for being.  We want the definition to be short, sweet, and to the point.  We hate it when words are vague, and it makes us search for the answer.  Where to start?

 First, most people never stop to consider what makes them unique.  We wait for someone to acknowledge our uniqueness and what makes us special.  When people say things like, “You are so good at… “, or “You have such a gift for ….”   Maybe they are expressing what they want or need in their lives.  Something they want to see more of, so they prosper more, from you and not you.  They may actually be telling you what you need to hear so you can see a gift you have yet to identify.  So, today, it is about acknowledging your strengths, quirks, and natural abilities.  Standing out begins with self-awareness.  You are not meant to be a copy of anyone else; your experiences, perspectives, and personality form a combination that exists nowhere else.  Reflect on what you bring to the world that only you can bring—compassion, creativity, discipline, humor, insight, determination, or leadership.  The more aware you are of your individuality, the more confidently you can live it.

As always, I tell you to write it down.  Not only will this let you see a good listing, but it can also remind you, when you're feeling down, that these strengths are still inside of you.  Lists are meant to be changed and altered.  They are never limitations; they are not bars on a cell door.